Experientially Speaking

- Basically experience is that little voice of reason behind everything else. Say for instance that I've known better experientially speaking than what is currently happening. I'm more likely to act a certain way based off the information that I've already known. Should someone come in with some really good news when all I've had is defeat and disappointment and a receiving of bad things at the hands of all men, I'm more likely going to be skeptical at first and then wonder when will it end.

- This voice of reason technically speaking is what leads some to observation first and then questioning later about it. That is to say your past very much influences how you view things right now. Then too it just might determine you're here-after that is unless you do something about it.

- Thus it's technically possible to have hope towards an end but to know deep down inside that nothing will change.

- Others too are more likely to behave in certain ways that could be considered quite cruel all based off their prior expectations, experiences, or knowledges there as a person

- Perhaps you've never heard it before, but that's where the popular expression of self-sabotaging comes into play. Self-sabotage is making a course of action based off the experiences that proves harmful to others and the self in the long run or in the immediate short-term. It might not be visible though at first, which is where many fall into the trap of thinking everything's just fine and they're getting by with it. Practically speaking it's justified isn't it as an act of protecting the self at least experientially which is where these things fit in at in the end. The only trouble with that is by the time the actions have proven harmful later on, the person no longer is able to connect their actions with the newly experienced and instead relates it on back to the trouble at hand.

- With that view in mind, there's no true growth in the midst because the voice of reason gets quite drowned out by the experientially crowd.

- Returning then back to the focus at hand requires simply a perspective that's just as it seems. It neither enlarges what has happened by focusing later nor puts it down ever so small almost as though it were nothing at all. Escaping the voice of experientially speaking is nothing more than enabling yourself as a person.