Appearance of What's Really Visible

- Society has taught us, or maybe it's just our survival instincts that've kicked into gear, to get dressed everyday, bathe, wash your clothes, brush your teeth and just do things to appear more likeable at first.

- It's this appearance of things that also leads us to behave in what's considered more socially appropriate manners at least as a general rule. That's why you'll not see someone use language that's unbecoming in polite society around a lady unless of course there's been quite a suddenness of shock to the system. It's also this likeability that necessitates we say 'excuse me ma'am' just to ensure that the air has been cleared and there's no hard feelings or remaining ill will. Just like that too, society demands on the woman a response of instant forgiveness of whatever trespass was uttered against her and an overlooking the slip of the tongue yet again. At least, it works that way when you go back a few hundred years. Perhaps this generation has gotten younger, who knows about it really, and thus has long since forgotten the ancient art of forgiveness.

- That's just to say that practically speaking likeability in this day and age thankfully doesn't require the social skills of a knight errant nor yet those of a crusader that's been bent over backwards.

- Likeability can also be found in our songs and our movies. Rarely if ever will you find a movie where the people aren't trying to fit in to wherever they're at, whatever they're doing, or when.

- Instantly likeable is like putting your best foot forward so to speak all in the hopes of making a good impression of sorts. It's also what leads us to adapt or change with the times. Back in the day nobody had phones except for the ones that were attached to the house which you got to listen into of course and now we all have them almost wherever we go. That is to say, doing anything to fit in leads to adaptability in social surroundings and lets us tailor our responses more carefully just to carry on with the crowd. Feedback from people and social responses are all clues that let's us know whether or not what we're doing is working for us there as a person. Based on responses, we're able to do something differently or just stay the same.

- Not fitting in can impede with your work and have other socially undesirable results there and stuff. In the perfect world, this wouldn't be an issue as much as it is when surrounded by crowds.

- Individuality also is what makes you unique and set apart in every way else. It's who you are naturally speaking as determined by summative matter or knowing or whatever your desires and aims are as a person